Flaws Into Blessings! :)
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Flaws, I hate that word. One of the worst words. Ever. Everyone has flaws, that's what makes us different from each other. If we were all the same, life would boringgggg, and if we were all perfect it would once again be boringgg. So there for flaws are a good thing, but sometimes can cause bad things to happen. Growing up as a teen right now is difficult. Not saying it wasn't difficult, for older generations. The generation and world we are growing in right now, is not the world that I heard about back then. We have a lot more technology, which can lead to really bad bullying. When people look at someone, anyone, they are judgemental. Don't say that you don't cause we all do it at times. We never realize how bad we can hurt someone when we point out their flaws and judge them. Sometimes it can lead to self harm, depression even suicide. And people that walk around, and think they are perfect and don't think they have flaws, are excuse my language, but full of shit. Everyone has flaws, its what makes us, us. I have flaws, boy do I have flaws. Haha. I'm going to be brave and list my flaws.
Brittany's Flaws
Brittany's Flaws
- 1. Overweight, considered obese
2, annoying at times
3. over caring at times
4. over protective of people
5. dramatic
6. text to much
7. assume things
8. over emotional at times
9. embarassed of myself
10. think im not good enough for anyone.
11. I make mistakes
All these things, and plenty more. These are just the ones I can think of. But these 10 things right her, make me who I am. Brittany. I still don't accept 98% of these things on this list. I am a teenage girl who is growing into a women. Strong, Confident, Understanding, Motivational, and Accepting. Accepting who you are for your flaws is one of the hardest, complex things you can ever do in your life. It's hard, it's difficult, and its worth it. When I started waking up in the morning and looking in the mirror and started saying, "I am beautiful even with my flaws." My attitude, and day would be 1089285723 times better ( I don't know if thats a number, I just pressed them :) )
People, come in the way of you accepting your flaws alot of the time. It's hard showing off your flaws and admitting them to people. Trust me I know. I'm not trying to be an inspiration, I'm just trying to help. I love helping people, its what I do best. I want you, yes you the one reading this to go into the room that your mirror is at, and tell yourself "I am beautiful, or I am handsome." And point out your flaws, and say "I love you, I love me, I am me because of you." Yes I know its cheesy, and cliche. But it does help. It helps to be proud of yourself and who you are even if you don't like and accept some of the things. God makes us different for a purpose. We have a mission down here on earth, and complete. Dj for example, his mission was to bring people together, accept people for who they are, be friends with whoever needed a friend, making people smile, being himself and accepting what was wrong with him. Dj had a heart condition, that he knew affected his life everyday he woke up he didn't know if it was going to be his last day or not. Did that stop him? no! Dj was the best guy I have ever met. I am sure people back me up on that. There was not a day that goes by, that he didn't succeed in something he loved doing. He always put a smile on peoples face, being a goofball, cheering people up, and being himself. The key thing is that he was himself, and he knew what his flaws were. I wouldn't even call them flaws, I would call them blessings. What happened to Dj was terrible, we all miss him dearly. But the things what he had to go through made him stronger every single day. And he stayed strong and still hung on. He was a blessing to this earth, and to our lives. He lived everyday like it was his last. I remember our phone conversation one night, I was upset during the time of my depression and I hated myself for what I was, I wanted to die. He told me his exact words, " Brittany, you know your my best friend?, Want to know why?, because you are you. I wouldn't change you for the world, I know you think your gross, but you are you, and you are beautiful. I wish you would accept yourself, it would make your life 10 times better and easier. You need to believe in yourself, and accept who you are even for your flaws, no blessings." I was crying when he said all that cause he was right. I am Brittany Cosper, and yes I have flaws, but I'm going to consider them blessings, because there is NO ONE in this world like me. And I am proud of who I am. And it's all thanks to Dj. He didn't let anything stop him from living his life. That is the inspiration right here. Accept your flaws as blessings. Because it is 100% true. Everyone is the way they are for a reason. If you think one of your flaws is stopping you from living your life to the fullest, then 1. accept it. 2. change it. You have to accept yourself for who you are before you can change and become yourself but 100 times better. The people that try and bring you down, look at the quote on this page and read it over and over again until it sticks in your head. Anyone can do anything if they put their 110% effort, and confidence into it. Here's the quote I live by. It's 100% true. "There comes a time when you have to stand up and shout: This is me damn it! I look the way I look, think the way I think, feel the way I feel, love the way I love. I am a whole complex package. Take me or leave me. Accept me or walk away. Do not try to make me feel like less of a person, just becuase I don't fit you idea of who I should be and don't try to change me to fit your mold. If I need to change, I alone will make that decision. When you are strong enough to love yourself 100%, good and bad, you will be amazed at the opportunities that life presents you." That's the quote I live by, it explains on what my blog is based on. I hope it helps your.
I am going to put a box on this page as well, and I would like you to tell me your flaws, and then after that say "I love you, I love me, I am me because of you." After you put your flaws down. Do it for Dj<3
Rest In Peace Duane Leonard Merriman "DJ". We love you and miss you :)
PeRfEcT By Headly (See Even Words Can Have Flaws! :) )
This song down below, has a very deep but 100% true meaning in every situation possible. I hope you enjoy :)